{"id":139,"date":"2008-05-31T23:00:00","date_gmt":"2008-06-01T06:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daimon.me\/blog\/?p=139"},"modified":"2008-05-31T23:00:00","modified_gmt":"2008-06-01T06:00:00","slug":"despre-prietenie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/daimon.me\/blog\/2008\/05\/despre-prietenie\/","title":{"rendered":"Despre prietenie"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"entry\">\n<p>Mai demult, am g\u0103sit pe holurile facult\u0103\u0163ii fi\u0163uica asta cu citate despre prietenie. Dracu \u015ftie a cui o fost sau ce rol a avut. Cert este c\u0103 unele lucruri de acolo sunt adev\u0103rate, unele tembele. Cum plictisu&#8217; e mare, s\u0103 arunc\u0103m un ochi. Dac\u0103 nu-i notat autorul, ghinion.<\/p>\n<blockquote style=\"font-weight: bold;\"><p>Prietenii \u015fi du\u015fmanii provin din interes. <span style=\"font-style: italic;\">Mahabharata.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>\u0102ia adev\u0103ra\u0163i sunt \u00een alte c\u0103r\u0163i, sau cum? Da&#8217; au dreptate, prima dat\u0103 te intereseaz\u0103 ceva la cel\u0103lalt, ai interes s\u0103 ob\u0163ii ceva -fie \u015fi doar satisfac\u0163ie intelectual\u0103-, abia apoi v\u0103 cunoa\u015fte\u0163i.<\/p>\n<blockquote style=\"font-weight: bold;\"><p>Prietenia unui om de\u015ftept e mai de pre\u0163 dec\u00e2t prietenia tuturor pro\u015ftilor. <span style=\"font-style: italic;\">Democrit.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Prostul le spune pe bune. Ca \u0103ia de la Sprite. C\u00e2teodat\u0103, dec\u00e2t o p\u0103rere de om de\u015ftept, care se mul\u0163ume\u015fte s\u0103 nu emit\u0103 prostii, mai bine una t\u0103iat\u0103 din bolovan. P\u0103rerea mea.<\/p>\n<blockquote style=\"font-weight: bold;\"><p>Prietenia sf\u00e2r\u015fe\u015fte acolo unde \u00eencepe ne\u00eencrederea. <span style=\"font-style: italic;\">Seneca.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>La fel cu dragostea \u015fi gelozia, nu? \u00censeamn\u0103 c\u0103 nu avem niciodat\u0103 prieteni complet adev\u0103ra\u0163i ..<\/p>\n<blockquote style=\"font-weight: bold;\"><p>Prietenia \u00eenseamn\u0103 un suflet \u00een dou\u0103 trupuri. <span style=\"font-style: italic;\">Aristotel.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>\u0102\u0103\u0103. Ok, ce naiba vrea s\u0103 spun\u0103 \u0103sta? Ceva de comuniune, \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u015fire, unire prin de-perspnalizare \u015fi alea alea. Posibil, da&#8217; tare laconic a spus-o. E mi\u015fto, sun\u0103 bine, dar f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 o explici pe \u00eendelete e cam degeaba.<\/p>\n<blockquote style=\"font-weight: bold;\"><p>C\u00e2nd \u00ee\u0163i faci un nou prieten, nu-l uita pe cel vechi. <span style=\"font-style: italic;\">Erasmus.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Uh-oh. Adec\u0103 el c\u00e2nd g\u0103sea ceva nou, nu \u00eei dedica mai mult timp dec\u00e2t altor chestii cotidiene? Din p\u0103cate, a\u015fa e peste tot &#8230; novelty attracts. Doar c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 nu ui\u0163i de tot chestiile vechi, asta e clar. Doar dac\u0103 noul \u015fi noutatea \u00eent\u00e2lnite, te-au schimbat fundamental \u015fi te-au pus pe alt drum. Hmm.<\/p>\n<blockquote style=\"font-weight: bold;\"><p>Nu \u00ee\u0163i petrece timpul cu cineva care nu este dispus s\u0103 \u015fi-l petreac\u0103 cu tine. <span style=\"font-style: italic;\">Gabriel Garcia Marquez.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>In-deed, sir! La noi se spune \u015fi c\u0103 &#8220;dragoste cu for\u0163a nu se poate&#8221;. Cred c\u0103 se refer\u0103 la acela\u015fi lucru. If you like a person, let go. If you are meant to meet, you&#8217;ll meet again.<\/p>\n<blockquote style=\"font-weight: bold;\"><p>Accept\u0103-l pe prietenul t\u0103u a\u015fa cum este. Probabil c\u0103, la fel ca \u015fi el, ai obiceiuri sau defecte care \u00eel enerveaz\u0103. Dar nu va \u00eentrerupe rela\u0163ia voastr\u0103 dac\u0103 este un prieten adev\u0103rat.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>\u0102sta e \u00eendemn clar s\u0103 te complaci. Tu m\u0103 scarpini pe spate, eu te scarpin. Tu te faci c\u0103 nu sunt zg\u00e2rcit, eu m\u0103 fac c\u0103 nu e\u015fti un infidel. Fair enough? I wonder..<\/p>\n<blockquote style=\"font-weight: bold;\"><p>Bog\u0103\u0163ia o apreciezi dup\u0103 ce ai primit-o, prietenia dup\u0103 ce ai pierdut-o.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Asta dac\u0103 e\u015fti mediocru. Altfel le pre\u0163uie\u015fti la adev\u0103rata valoare \u015fi c\u00e2nd le ai, \u015fi c\u00e2nd nu. E cam degeaba vorba asta.<\/p>\n<blockquote style=\"font-weight: bold;\"><p>Adev\u0103ratul prieten e cel care nu trece nimic cu vederea dar iart\u0103 totul.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>S-au inventat agendele personale pentru asta. Te fut de c\u00e2te ori vreau, tu oricum m\u0103 ier\u0163i. De ce am senza\u0163ia c\u0103 nu merge?<\/p>\n<blockquote style=\"font-weight: bold;\"><p>S\u0103 nu legi prietenie cu omul pe care nu-l po\u0163i respecta.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>\u015ei cum afli asta dac\u0103 nu te \u00eemprietene\u015fti prima dat\u0103?<\/p>\n<blockquote style=\"font-weight: bold;\"><p>Prietenul sigur \u00eel cuno\u015fti \u00een \u00eemprejur\u0103ri nesigure.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>No shit, Sherlock. Partea proast\u0103 este c\u0103 acea cunoa\u015ftere, \u015fi implicit realizarea, vine prea t\u00e2rziu, c\u00e2nd deja tr\u0103ie\u015fti efectele \u00eemprejur\u0103rilor nesigure ..<\/p>\n<blockquote style=\"font-weight: bold;\"><p>\u00cen prietenia curat\u0103 exist\u0103 o ging\u0103\u015fie la care nu pot ajunge cei mediocri. <span style=\"font-style: italic;\">La Bruyere.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>True that. Unii nu pot ridica o rela\u0163ie, o prietenie, o leg\u0103tur\u0103, dincolo de orizontul cotidianului. Se spune c\u0103 doar oamenii boga\u0163i suflete\u015fte pot fi cu adev\u0103rat dezinteresa\u0163i.<\/p>\n<blockquote style=\"font-weight: bold;\"><p>Nu po\u0163i pierde dec\u00e2t ceea ce nu ai avut. <span style=\"font-style: italic;\">Borges.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Ori e typo ori e abera\u0163ie.<\/p>\n<blockquote style=\"font-weight: bold;\"><p>C\u00e2nd prietenii mei nu au dec\u00e2t un ochi, \u00eei privesc din profil. <span style=\"font-style: italic;\">Joseph Joubert.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>E \u015fi oleac\u0103 de t\u0103inuire \u00een asta. Adic\u0103 dac\u0103 \u00eei prive\u015fti din fa\u0163\u0103, nu sunt la fel de frumo\u015fi? Nu vreau s\u0103 m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc ce contorsionism ai face dac\u0103 din gre\u015feal\u0103 \u015fi-ar pierde \u015fi al doilea ochi ..<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s all folks.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mai demult, am g\u0103sit pe holurile facult\u0103\u0163ii fi\u0163uica asta cu citate despre prietenie. Dracu \u015ftie a cui o fost sau ce rol a avut. Cert este c\u0103 unele lucruri de acolo sunt adev\u0103rate, unele tembele. Cum plictisu&#8217; e mare, s\u0103 arunc\u0103m un ochi. Dac\u0103 nu-i notat autorul, ghinion. Prietenii \u015fi du\u015fmanii provin din interes. 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