{"id":4322,"date":"2016-06-29T13:05:17","date_gmt":"2016-06-29T10:05:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daimon.me\/blog\/?p=4322"},"modified":"2016-06-29T13:05:17","modified_gmt":"2016-06-29T10:05:17","slug":"platitudini-infioratoare-de-data-asta-in-limba-engleza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daimon.me\/blog\/2016\/06\/platitudini-infioratoare-de-data-asta-in-limba-engleza\/","title":{"rendered":"Platitudini \u00eenfior\u0103toare, de data asta \u00een limba englez\u0103."},"content":{"rendered":"
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M\u0103 mai pune dracu’ s\u0103 intru din c\u00e2nd \u00een c\u00e2nd pe Reddit, \u0163in\u00e2ndu-m\u0103 de nas \u015fi p\u0103\u015find u\u015for printre rahaturi. Ei bine, am \u00eent\u00e2lnit ast\u0103zi un fir de discu\u0163ie foarte animat, pe tema “Ce chestiuni n-ar trebui s\u0103-i preocupe at\u00e2t de mult pe tineri?<\/a>“. ((M\u0103 rog, termenul original e teenagers, a\u015f traduce prin “pu\u015ftani” \u00eens\u0103 le cam exclude pe gagici, a\u015fa c\u0103 .. tineret-m\u00e2ndria-\u0163\u0103rii. Cu tinerii \u00eenainte, deci.))<\/p>\n

S\u0103 spicuim pu\u0163in, c\u0103-i amuzant:<\/p>\n

1 – Whether or not people like them. So much of my teen years were stressing out about if my friends actually liked me as I was painfully shy. Turns out they were mostly shit heads and I haven’t spoken to most of them in years with few exceptions. If people can’t like you for who you are then they shouldn’t be your friends.<\/p>\n

2 – Love. I overheard a fourteen year old at my niece’s birthday party talking about how her boyfriend won’t hold her hand in public and that maybe it means he doesn’t want to have her kids in the future. What the fuck?<\/p>\n

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3 – Relationships, more specifically the future of said relationships. I’m all for teenagers having relationships, it’s an important time to work a lot of that stuff out, but it can become a REAL issue when tthe relationships don’t work out or go weird. There are absolutely teen relationships that work out and last the years but they’re the massive minority. Enjoy it, have fun, don’t fall apart when the relationship does.<\/p>\n

4 – Drama. It may seem important to get revenge or win an argument, but seriously, don’t be bothered, it’s not more important than studying and getting a good job.<\/p>\n

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5 – who is having sex and who isn’t. i remember as a teenager ranking myself amongst other students based on whether or not i thought they achieved certain ‘sexual milestones’ by the time i did. it’s stupid, and i’ve heard of both girls and boys thinking in such a manner. whether you choose to have sex with someone, or you choose to abstain, or you find that it’s difficult to find someone who will want to be that close to you… it’s not something to spend time worrying about, especially in high school!<\/p>\n

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6 – Chances are, you won’t be friends with majority of the people you are friends with now. People go their separate ways, and you will come to learn who you want in your life. Friendships get trickier because unlike high school, you won’t see them everyday.<\/p>\n

7 – Also, just do your fucking homework. Seriously, just do it. I fucked around in high school and ended up at college instead of university (for the time being) because I didn’t give a shit back then.<\/p>\n

8 – Losing your virginity. It really isn’t that important, or that big a deal.<\/p>\n

9 – Micromanaging their personal appearance. Tiny zits on one’s face were always a source of massive stress but they seem so absurdly trivial now as an adult.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n

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Cred c-ajunge. Citatele sunt, desigur, de la multiple persoane.<\/p>\n

~*~<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 le lu\u0103m pe r\u00e2nd, cred c\u0103-s cam toate un num\u0103r de idio\u0163enii monumentale.<\/p>\n

Spre exemplu, s\u0103 nu-\u0163i pese ce cred oamenii despre tine. O glum\u0103 foarte amuzant\u0103, av\u00e2nd \u00een vedere c\u0103 fix \u00een tinere\u0163e \u015fi \u00een \u015fcoal\u0103 \u00ee\u015fi \u00eenva\u0163\u0103 tinerii locul \u00een societate. Sigur, sunt \u0103ia c\u00e2\u0163iva care-s at\u00e2t de monumental de superiori \u00eenc\u00e2t n-au nevoie de nimic de la cei de-o seam\u0103 cu ei, joac\u0103 deja \u00een alt\u0103 lig\u0103. Geniul \u00een ale chimiei sigur c\u0103 e complet dezinteresat de p\u0103rerile tipilor care-\u015fi petrec pauzele fum\u00e2nd la bud\u0103. \u00cens\u0103 restu’ au a se integra \u00een grup cumva. Nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 submisiune complet\u0103, \u00eens\u0103 este un joc pe care trebuie s\u0103-l joci.<\/p>\n

A, c\u0103 jocul devine irelevant \u00eentre adul\u0163i? Sigur c\u0103 da. Devine irelevant \u00eentre adul\u0163ii care \u015fi-au g\u0103sit deja locul. Muncitorii de fabric\u0103 nu mai au pe cine s\u0103 epateze venind \u00eembr\u0103ca\u0163i la 4 ace, devin vag ridicoli. CEOu’ nu mai merge la munc\u0103 \u00een \u015flapi plini de praf, din motive similare. Ce p\u0103rere are un muncitor despre un alt muncitor e complet neimportant. Sigur c\u0103 mi se flutur\u0103 de vecinii mei, pentru c\u0103 locuim to\u0163i \u00een acela\u015fi cartier de oameni banali, nu \u00een ceva cartier de vile de lux. \u0162es\u0103tura social\u0103 rezolv\u0103 pentru adul\u0163i problemele astea.<\/p>\n

~*~<\/p>\n

\u00cen alt\u0103 ordine de idei, cic\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 nu le pese tinerilor de iubiri sau de sex. Pe bune, cic\u0103 astea \u00ees neimportante.<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 sunt binevoitor, presupun c\u0103 autorii bazaconiilor \u0103stora sunt ni\u015fte adul\u0163i blaza\u0163i, ajun\u015fi la 50 de ani \u015fi care-s sec\u0103tui\u0163i seminal a\u015fa c\u0103 au uitat cum e s\u0103 suferi de focu’ tinere\u0163ii. Dac\u0103-s ur\u00e2cios, spun c\u0103 autorii sunt ni\u015fte pule\u0163i frustra\u0163i care-au r\u0103mas nefutu\u0163i prea mult\u0103 vreme, a\u015fa c\u0103 au trecut cu arme \u015fi bagaje \u00een tab\u0103ra unde se poate \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103, c-a\u015fa s-au obi\u015fnuit. \u015ei, vorba aia, pe la 26 de ani te obi\u015fnuie\u015fti cu laba.<\/p>\n

B\u0103i frate! Cum s\u0103 nu conteze dragostea \u015fi sexu’ la adolescen\u0163i? Sigur c\u0103-s ni\u015fte rela\u0163ii futile \u015fi timp izidit. Sigur c\u0103 nimeni nu r\u0103m\u00e2ne cu dragostea vie\u0163ii descoperit\u0103 la 13 ani. Dar efortul nu-i degeaba, fiindc\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n t\u00e2n\u0103ra sau t\u00e2n\u0103rul cu o anume experien\u0163\u0103. Doar o dat\u0103 \u00een via\u0163\u0103 ai 15 ani. Nu-i tot aia s\u0103 te dezvirginezi la 14 sau la 25. Nu-i tot aia s\u0103 fii sincron cu genera\u0163ia sau nu.<\/p>\n

~*~<\/p>\n

Alt\u0103 t\u00e2mpenie e \u015fi aia cu prietenii, care cic\u0103 nu r\u0103m\u00e2n aceia\u015fi. Desigur. \u015ei ce dac\u0103?<\/p>\n

Tinere\u0163ea exist\u0103 pentru a fi consumat\u0103. Sigur c\u0103 po\u0163i s-o consumi \u015fi f\u0103c\u00e2nd ca Adolescentul Miop ((\u00centrebare tangent\u0103: \u00eei mai pas\u0103 cuiva de Eliade? Mai conteaz\u0103 cuiva c-a dat un portret decent pentru adolescentul ce-\u015fi pierde tinere\u0163ea \u00een studii? Nu-mi pare c-a r\u0103mas mare lucru de acolo.)) – po\u0163i petrece zile citind sau f\u0103c\u00e2nd\u00a0experimente \u015ftiin\u0163ifice. Da’ altminteri, tinere\u0163ea se consum\u0103 \u015fi \u00een rela\u0163ii cu al\u0163ii – rela\u0163ii care pe m\u0103sur\u0103 ce omul \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u015fte urc\u0103 pe scara importan\u0163ei. E un confort psihic s\u0103 faci o plimbare pe aleile trecutului \u00eempreun\u0103 cu cineva care te-a cunoscut la 10 ani sau la 14, chiar \u015fi la 18. C\u00e2nd ap\u0103s\u0103rile vie\u0163ii cresc, a avea pe cineva cu care s\u0103-\u0163i aminte\u015fti despre zilele senine ale tinere\u0163ii valoreaz\u0103 foarte mult.<\/p>\n

~*~<\/p>\n

Ar mai fi aia cu temele. Sigur, e important s\u0103-\u0163i faci temele, s\u0103 \u00eenve\u0163i, s\u0103-\u0163i fii propriul st\u0103p\u00e2n pentru a nu ajunge sclav al altora.<\/p>\n

Totu\u015fi, mesajul \u00eemi pare t\u0103iat prea brusc. Bill Gates nu \u015fi-a f\u0103cut temele, \u00eens\u0103 a depus efort, mult efort, acolo unde l-a pasionat pe el. A \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at ce a vrut, nu ce i s-a spus. \u015eti\u0163i vorba aia c\u0103 “nu l\u0103sa \u015fcoala s\u0103 stea \u00een calea educa\u0163iei tale”? Mnoa, de acolo vine.<\/p>\n

E\u015fti programator nu c\u00e2nd \u015ftii s\u0103 define\u015fti o bucl\u0103 “for” a\u015fa cum scrie la manual. \u0102la e \u00eenceputul. Programator e\u015fti c\u00e2nd execu\u0163i softul \u00een cap, iar apoi te pui s\u0103 transcrii. Programator e\u015fti c\u00e2nd \u015ftii deja instruc\u0163iunile de asamblare \u00een care va fi transpus programul t\u0103u la compilare.<\/p>\n

\u015ecoala e doar o treapt\u0103. \u00cenv\u0103\u0163\u0103tura disponibil\u0103 e etern\u0103 \u015fi nesf\u00e2r\u015fit\u0103. Uneori, nu are sens s\u0103 te cramponezi de metodele formale.<\/p>\n

~*~<\/p>\n

Cam at\u00e2t. E obositor s\u0103 diseci a\u015fa ceva..<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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